A6.There is no single answer to this question. Has your child heard a range of instruments about which they could express a preference? What do they want to play? Are you prepared to support their choice or do you want to rule any out? Have you discussed it with them and do they realise how much work is involved?
In all cases, the child must be the one to decide what they want to do. They are the ones who will have to put the work in. However, there are a huge range of ways you can help them to keep going and become very skilled on whatever instrument they choose. Being supportive, avoiding nagging about practice, ferrying to lessons or rehearsals will become part of your life too.
There will be points when they are learning when the excitement of the new activity has worn off and the slog seems to be taking over. DonŐt let them give up at the first hurdle. Playing in concerts and ensembles, orchestras and bands usually tides them over the bad patches and they will make long lasting friendships through that ensemble playing. If they are feeling stressed at school examination times, discuss with their teacher the possibility of a lighter load for a time. There is no need to give up altogether. If they do give up they will probably not go back to it and will regret it later.